09 May 2011 ~ Comments Off on Spend Less, Save More, & Make Time For A Rich Life

Spend Less, Save More, & Make Time For A Rich Life

If you had no financial constraints, what would you be doing with your time? I’m sure you’d spend more time with family and friends and pursue the hobbies and interests you love, but after a while, even that would get old.  Most of the time, when I ask people why they aren’t doing what they […]

09 May 2011 ~ Comments Off on Secrets To Have More Time Part 2

Secrets To Have More Time Part 2

In Part 1 of this blog post, we spoke to P.M. about her extreme case of do-itus.  She tried to be Super Woman to everyone around her.  Being pulled in all those different directions had her feeling drained and, well, not so super. I have good news for all the sufferers of do-itus! You can […]

17 April 2011 ~ Comments Off on Secrets to Have More Time Part 1

Secrets to Have More Time Part 1

Question: “Dear Barnsley, I am caring for my mother with dementia, the affairs of an uncle who is placed in a nursing home as well as helping my husband who is a pastor.  I am trying to do the ground work to open a new business, but I need more time to do the planning.  […]

08 March 2011 ~ 0 Comments

How to De-stress, Leave Work at Work and Relax

Question: “Barnsley, I’m an incredibly driven person when it comes to my career and feeling like I’ve accomplished what I need to each day. In tackling those pursuits, there is a certain amount of ‘armor’ that I wear to continue forward motion despite disappointments, failures, etc. I find it difficult to remove this armor when […]

17 February 2011 ~ 0 Comments

Get Energy, Creativity, and Focus: Experience Nature!

Question: “Barnsley, We came to this area originally to get away from Washington DC. We wanted to come to quiet Cary and enjoy the forests and the beautiful scenic roads. In five years we have seen every piece of land in a two mile radius become de-nuded of trees and we have seen multiple Harris […]

11 February 2011 ~ 0 Comments

Stop Worrying & Live in the Moment

What’s your enthusiasm level? Do you bound out of bed in the morning or do you drag yourself to the bathroom like a ball and chain is attached to your leg? And what kind of balls and chains are you carrying around in your THOUGHTS? If there’s anything I know for sure it’s that the […]

01 February 2011 ~ 0 Comments

Make More Time for Your Business Success

People often ask me in my presentations how to take care of the things you don’t like to do in your business, and PRESTO! Without even having to wave my magic wand or don my shiny gold lame turban, lo and behold, I appear in this blog, “How to Handle Things in Your Business That […]

17 January 2011 ~ 0 Comments

Have More Time–15-30 Extra Minutes Per Day

Question: “Barnsley, I never have time to do the things I love most–reading, listening to music, and spending time with friends and family. What can I do? HELP!” Dana in Durham, NC Answer: I have just one suggestion for you… QUIT YOUR JOB! Okay, so maybe that’s not an option. But what you CAN do […]

12 January 2011 ~ 0 Comments

How to Achieve Goals Step by Step

Question: “Barnsley, I’ve got several huge projects to tackle at home and work and I’m overwhelmed!  Where do I start??  Arggghhh!” (This question comes from a reader who prefers to remain anonymous–We’ll call her “Overwhelmed Ophelia.”  Hang in there, girl and don’t you dare let yourself DROWN in all those projects!  Okay, I just had […]

31 December 2010 ~ 0 Comments

Give Thanks and Focus on the Good No Matter What

Questions from readers are pouring in and I’m thrilled to be featuring these in the ezine—Thank you for sharing your challenges! I like to think of our emails as conversations–You and I are just sitting here enjoying a nice tall glass of lemonade, discussing how we can have even more success, balance, and prosperity in […]